Nicole Sutherland, M.S., LMFT

Licensed Marriage & Family Therapist

Available Tuesday - Thursday | Day & Evenings| Mission Valley Office | Point Loma Office

Hello and welcome. Sometimes reaching for help is the bravest move you can make. My intention as a therapist is to create a therapeutic space that is engaging, non-judgmental and safe. My clinical practice is informed by Attachment Theory and I am trained in Narrative, Emotionally Focused, Solutions Focused and Acceptance & Commitment Therapy (ACT). I often integrate elements of these therapy models to meet the unique needs of each individual client.

I am a diversity affirming therapist and see my role as a collaborative guide who facilitates conversations that honor your experience and ability to overcome problems. Therapy can serve to provide fresh perspectives, highlight existing strengths and open us up to learning new ways to live healthier, fuller lives that are in congruence with our core values and preferred ways of being.

I engage my clients in compassionate inquiry and gently nudge them into directions that may be helpful within a positive and warm therapeutic experience. Sometimes the messages we all receive from society and culture can be examined and clients may find that they have been living within narrowly defined constructs that can be reconsidered moving forward. Mindfulness, gratitude and self-compassion practices are woven into all my sessions. My work with clients affirms my understanding that we are all complex, resilient beings who can and do change, given the right contexts and conditions.

Symbolism of the hummingbird?

Hummingbirds have a long history of symbolism in the folklore of many cultures. They are seen as healers and harbingers of love, good fortune and joy. They are also symbols of hope and resilience which is why I chose the imagery you see on this site.

Vulnerability is the birthplace of love, belonging, joy, courage, empathy, and creativity. It is the source of hope, empathy, accountability, and authenticity. If we want greater clarity in our purpose or deeper and more meaningful spiritual lives, vulnerability is the path.

- Brene Brown

Happiness is not dependent on circumstances being as exactly as we want them to be, or on ourselves being exactly as we'd like to be. Rather, happiness stems from loving ourselves and our lives exactly as they are, knowing that joy and pain, strength and weakness, glory and failure are all essential to the full human experience.

- Kristin Neff